In short
- The app is educational and supportive. It is not therapy, it does not diagnose, and it is not an emergency service.
- For adults 18 and over only.
- The subscription auto-renews at the same price until you cancel it in the App Store or Google Play.
- If you cancel, access continues until the end of the period already paid. Cancelling does not refund the current period. Refunds are requested from the store.
- What you write stays on your phone. There is no account and no password.
1. Who provides the app
The Before Me app, also published as Antes de Mim (Portuguese) and Antes de Mí (Spanish), is provided by GRUPO YURI BUSIN S/S LTDA, Brazilian company registration (CNPJ) 61.889.643/0001-22, Rua Voluntários da Pátria, 2468, suite 214, Santana, São Paulo/SP, 02402-000, Brazil (“we”). The lessons, book and exercises are authored by Dr. Yuri Busin, psychologist (CRP 06/107708, Brazil).
By installing or using the app, you confirm that you have read and accept these Terms and the Privacy Policy. If you do not agree, do not use the app.
2. What the app is, and what it is not
The app is an educational and self-care resource for people struggling with retroactive jealousy: a 30-day program, video lessons, the book and practical tools based on the PRO Method.
The app does not replace psychological, psychiatric or medical assessment, diagnosis or treatment. Using the app does not create a therapist–client relationship with Dr. Yuri Busin or any psychologist on our team, and it does not include therapy sessions.
The app is not an emergency service. If you are in danger or thinking about hurting yourself, call your local emergency number now (for example 911 in the US and Canada, 112 in the EU, 999 in the UK), or a crisis line such as 988 in the US.
If you have a mental health diagnosis, are in treatment or take medication, talk to your professional before doing the exercises, especially the exposure ones (the ladder and the experiments).
3. Who can use it
People aged 18 or over who are able to accept these Terms. The app is for personal, non-commercial use.
You are responsible for protecting access to your phone. The app offers a lock with Face ID, fingerprint or device passcode; we recommend keeping it on.
4. Responsible use and safety in your relationship
The tools in the app are for working on your own responses. Do not use the app to monitor, control, pressure or expose another person, or to justify any form of violence.
If you are in a relationship with violence, threats or control, your safety comes first: seek professional help and the services listed in section 2.
5. No account: your data stays on your phone
The app does not create an account and does not ask for an email or password. What you write is stored on the device itself.
So if you delete the app, change phones without transferring the app's data, or use Delete everything, those records are lost and we cannot recover them. Your subscription can be recovered on another phone with the same store account, using Restore purchases.
6. Free plan and subscription
Without paying, you get the first 3 days of the program, stages 1 and 2 of the lessons, a sample of the book and all the in-the-moment crisis tools. The crisis tools stay free even without a subscription.
The subscription unlocks the full 30-day program, all lessons, the whole book and the tools for building and maintaining change. There is a monthly and a yearly plan.
The subscription is purchased and billed through the App Store (Apple) or Google Play (Google), on your store account. Prices are those shown in the app and in the store at the time of purchase, in your local currency, and may include local taxes. We never receive your card details.
Auto-renewal. The subscription renews automatically at the end of each period (month or year), at the same price, until cancelled. The store charges the renewal, usually within 24 hours before the period ends. If the price changes, you will be notified in advance under the store's rules and can cancel before the new charge.
7. How to cancel
You can cancel at any time, without talking to anyone: in the app, go to You › Subscription › Manage or cancel, which opens the store's subscriptions page. You can also cancel directly in the store: Google Play at play.google.com/store/account/subscriptions; App Store at apps.apple.com/account/subscriptions, or Settings › your name › Subscriptions.
When you cancel, access continues until the end of the period already paid, and nothing more is charged after that.
Deleting the app or your data does not cancel the subscription. Cancellation is always done in the store.
8. Refunds and statutory rights
Cancelling does not refund the current period, in whole or in part: access simply runs until the end of that period.
Refund requests are made to the store where you bought, which decides under its own rules: Google Play at support.google.com/googleplay/answer/2479637; App Store at reportaproblem.apple.com.
Nothing in these Terms limits the rights you have under the consumer protection laws of your country, including any statutory right of withdrawal. If the store does not resolve your request, message us on WhatsApp +55 11 99964-6940 and we will help.
9. Complimentary access codes
We may give access codes that unlock the full app at no cost, for example to patients, partners or reviewers. A code is personal, has no cash value, cannot be sold, and may expire or be deactivated if misused.
10. Content, changes and availability
We may improve, add, change or remove lessons, texts and features while keeping the purpose of the program. The app receives automatic updates over the internet.
We work to keep the app available and accurate, but it may have interruptions, failures or errors, including because of problems with the store, the internet or your device.
11. Intellectual property
The lessons, videos, audio, book, texts, tools, app design and the Before Me, Antes de Mim and Antes de Mí brands are protected by copyright and trademark law.
You receive a personal, limited, non-exclusive, non-transferable and revocable licence to use the app on your device. You may not copy, screen-record, download, distribute, resell, publish or adapt the content, reverse engineer the app, or try to bypass payment.
12. Liability
Decisions about your life, your health and your relationship are yours. The app offers information and exercises with no guarantee of results: each person responds differently.
To the extent permitted by law, we are not liable for indirect damages arising from the use of the app, for decisions made based on it, for failures of third-party services (stores, internet, carriers) or for the loss of data stored on your device. Nothing in these Terms excludes or limits liability that cannot be excluded by law.
13. Third-party services
The app uses third-party services such as the App Store, Google Play, Cloudflare (video delivery), Expo (app updates) and RevenueCat (subscription management), and opens links to WhatsApp and Instagram. These services have their own terms and policies. See the Privacy Policy.
14. If you downloaded the app from the App Store
- These Terms are an agreement between you and us, not with Apple. We, not Apple, are responsible for the app and its content.
- Apple has no obligation to provide maintenance or support for the app.
- If the app fails to conform to any applicable warranty, you may notify Apple, and Apple may refund the purchase price; to the maximum extent permitted by law, Apple has no other warranty obligation.
- Apple is not responsible for addressing any claims by you or a third party relating to the app, including product liability, failure to meet legal or consumer protection requirements, or third-party intellectual property infringement claims.
- You represent that you are not located in a country subject to a US Government embargo and are not on any US Government list of prohibited or restricted parties.
- Apple and its subsidiaries are third-party beneficiaries of these Terms and may enforce them against you.
15. Changes to these Terms
We may update these Terms. The current version is always on this page, with the date at the top. Important changes will be announced in the app before they take effect. Continuing to use the app after the notice means you accept the new version.
16. Governing law
These Terms are governed by the laws of Brazil, with the courts of São Paulo/SP, Brazil, having jurisdiction, without prejudice to the mandatory consumer protection rules and courts of the country where you live.
17. Contact
WhatsApp +55 11 99964-6940. We answer in English, Spanish and Portuguese.